neck deep - in bloom

This here is a song from one of my many favorite bands. The video is a big mess of pink and flowers, and it appears all soft and springy. But, the lyrics talk about how a relationship can't move forward if one person doesn't allow their significant other to better themselves. Their relationship can't "bloom" if they both aren't ready to step up. The song really shows that a relationship is two-sided and both parties have to work together in sync and equally - if one person isn't on the same level as the other, it doesn't work well and create problems.